First call a dealer of your fridge in the yellow pages with your model number along with the serial number. Next order the part if not on hand and if they have it buy it. Next ask someone you know that's handy to replace it.
Some men take it differently. They can take it just as a girl takes it: hard. well, the men that usually make the break-up, and it is not you as a girl, the man can take it quite well sometimes