How do you gain back your ex-girlfriend if she left you?

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A person remembers the last contact they have with you, so, the next contact you have with her, make a sincere effort to be nice and say something that is heartfelt and meaningful. Then don't contact her for a while. She will think fondly of your last meeting, and then be more willing to reconcile.

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Much of this will depend on why she left. However, if you feel in your heart that you have a slim chance or any kind of chance, or if you really want to know if there is a chance, because you are not exactly sure, then let her know that you love her. Did you tell her that you loved her? Did you look her in the eye? Were you not sure what you had until it was too late? If you think there may be a chance in your heart or at least you want to know, then make every effort to let her know you would give anything for one more chance to make things right or to do all you can to do your best to make it work.

In some cases, nothing will work. If you know for a fact she simply is not in love with you from her telling you this, then ok. Let her go. Maybe in time the both of you will find your way back. Sometimes people need time alone to evaluate or to realize what they had. It doesn't mean you should go out and boff anything that has a crotch to make you feel like you are loved or wanted. It means be mature emotionally, not immature. The worst that could happen is you end up meeting someone else who is for sure quality, and you'll be at your emotional best as well.

Love hurts sometimes. Nothing will solve that. Even the most beautiful women models and actresses get dumped, and so do those leading men. It's just a fact of life. Stay very busy. It's hard when you are hurting so bad you can't see anything else but force yourself to stay busy and it may help to fall asleep with the tv on low so you don't have to think too hard about some things.

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My advice would to be to ask her what it was in the beggining she found attracted you to her, was it the way you made her laugh? the way you were there when she needed someone to talk to? or something else. Whatever it was find out.This way you can try to make this aspect of your personality stand out so she might notice it again. It is a proven fact that when you are together with someone for a period of time you never completely lose all feeling for that person so rekindle that part of your personality she loved so much and you'll go a long way towards getting back together.

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