No you cannot
First you must locate a reputable location in which to download adobe flash. Your best bet will be from adobe themselves but there are other places.
Nothing, unless the specific SWF, embedded Flash in a website or a Projector file has a specific script designed to have an email link.
The Flash Player plugin is designed to play embedded Flash content in websites, where as the ActiveX plugin is designed to run commands from either a movie clip or small elements on the site. Things...