Answer Unfortunately, you can't simply "get your girlfriend back" by wishing it into being or giving her flowers and willing her to come back to you. There are a number of factors to analyze, such as why she left you, i.e. if you cheated on her apologize or attempt to make reparations, whether or not the relationship was healthy or not and if it was a good thing you broke up with her, and if she is worth the effort, like a soul-mate compared to a simple booty call.
The answer in part depends upon what you did that precipitated the breakup. If you genuinely believe that you bear some responsibility, do not hesitate to sincerely apologize and offer to discuss what occurred. Recognition of some of her favorite things, such as flowers, may be a nice gesture but is not always needed at the early stages. More important is the acceptance of responsibility. If she seems inclined to reconcile, a joint plan for rehabilitation of the relationship would be a great idea. In that way, there is a bilateral commitment is created and the attribution of "fault" is minimized; in other words, you both have a stake in the success of the plan.
Answer The way to get a girlfriend back, if she wants to go back with you, is to just show her how much you care about her. Asking for a date, helping her with a project she's working on and saying how much you miss her, are just a few ways that might help bring her back. But, keep in mind, she may not want to return to the friendship. And, you will know this by the way she responds to you. If you sense she doesn't want to go back with you, leave it be and move on. Sometimes the best way to win someone back is just to leave them alone for awhile.
Answer If you broke up with her give the breakup some time. Then tell her you're sorry for the breakup and for hurting her (because you probably did). If she broke up with you don't try to get her back because girls have their reasons!
Answer It really depends on how and why the two of you broke it off. Let it play out. Give her some space to breathe. Give yourself some time to breathe. If you are semi-responsible for the breakup make sure you change your ways. She needs to know this will never happen again and that she won't get hurt again. Once you've done that apologize and sincerely let her know you will never let that happen again speech.
Answer If you're the one who initiated the breakup, she may still be interested in dating you. If she's the one who broke up with you, she may not be willing to be in a romantic engagement with you at this moment.
Answer The important thing is to wait and give it time. Give yourselves time to cool down, and give each other some time and space away from each other. After a few weeks, if you're still interested, ask her if she wants to hang out. Make the stipulation that you'll be going out as friends... don't make it a date, actually invite some other friends along, yours and hers. Even if you're the one who initiated the breakup, you don't want to take things too fast.
Answer Don't "try to get back with her." If she doesn't even agree to hang out with you, she's not interested in you romantically, or even as a friend. If this is the case, just let it go. There's over 3 billion women in the world, there's at least one for you.
Answer If she's still willing to hang out, it means that somewhere inside, she might still want to be with you. Spending some friendly time in a non-threatening environment is a good way to see if sparks still fly.
Answer Whatever you do, don't force it. Don't put her on the spot, don't make ultimatums, and don't harass her. Especially avoid making your relationship the focus of public attention. (In other words, don't hit on her in front of her or your friends).
Answer To start, you need to avoid any activity that will make your ex think less of you. If you're not certain what these activities are, a good rule of thumb is to avoid anything that you would be embarrassed to tell your friends.
Next, you need to give your ex some space. During this time, don't contact your ex at all. Now, this may go against everything you feel right now, but its the best thing for both of you. It will give your ex time to get over negative feelings they have for your right now, and it will give you time to come up with an effective plan to get your ex back.
Finally, you need to come up with a plan to get your ex back. Of course, this isn't always easy. If you do or say the wrong things, you could end up losing them forever.
Here are a few tips:
- Be confident just like when you met her for the first time
- Keep your dignity. Do NOT BEG her. It never works.
- Don`t go after revenge. Revenge may seem like a great option right now, but if you really want a second chance, this is not the best strategy. Focusing on revenge will only make sure that you never get a second chance.