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How do you get completely over someone you love when they do not feel the same WA?
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∙ 14y ago
I'm currently dealing with this myself. I have done a little research online and a found a few things interesting and possibly helpful: 1. write down what it is you find so interesting about the person and why - because if you know the answer to why it at least puts you on the road to being able to move on.
2. I like the idea of writing down what is wrong about the person and not holding back. I saw that on Yahoo answers. But, it was also important then not to give all those bad thoughts to the person. You can be a jerk, but just be it to yourself - if at all possible..give off a carefree air to the person you need to get over. We all know this - But, people LOVE confidence. They respond to it. We are feeling like the earth has swallowed us up and something is eating out our heart - but by showing this we may be making our problems worse. Be Confident.
Once you've written it..get rid of it. Try not to hold on to things about the person..especially if you KNOW for sure they don't feel the same way. You can comfort yourself they may feel that way down the road..but hopefully, by that time you're alot further down that road and even if they did - you wouldn't particularly care anymore.
Be Courageous.
3. If you have no best friend to moan to..be your own best friend. Being in a one sided love is a very lonely feeling - don't compound the problem by overeating or beating yourself up. If you've ever had somebody else in love with you and felt badly you didnt' return the feelings it probably wasn't because they were disgusting and unlovable - it may have just been the wrong time.
Be Compassionate.
4. Keep your mind open to new things. Take your time getting over this person. As long as you want - it's YOUR life after all. IN this - you have total control. You're the author of your own destiny. All that pain is taking you down a journey towards something else.. Sometimes pain is a good life lesson that can help you through something else down the road. As long as you're alive - there is always Hope.
Be you're own HERO.
Good luck - hope this helped somewhat. Even if it's anonymous. I really hope you find the love you seek.
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