You have to gain more skills... Like buy a fishing kit at the hobby shop and fish at " the lake" or buy recipes at the Corsican bistro and after you go to the quick mart ( next to rue hobby shop)...
yes u build up Ur relationship enough until Ur dating then go to romance and go to propose then after that do the same thing and get married should be thereafter or before u can then go to actions...
not on just the sims 3 it has to be sims 3 ambitions but your only aloud one and it cost 5 bucks on itunes i would just buy the actual game for the pc.