How do you get over the heartache of your mom not loving you?

Answer 1

Most people would probably answer this question with something like:

"Your mum does love you"

But, quite honestly, I can't promise you that. I do not know your mother, or what she has done to you to make you feel this way. I hope that your feelings and her behavior are both temporary. Otherwise, you will need to learn to move on. I had the same problem with my father years ago, and what pestered me most was the question 'why'. I felt guilt, and I wanted to know what I could have possibly done wrong to make him feel this way. In the end, you come up with your own theory (I can guarantee it is not your fault) and then you eventually stop feeling emotions towards them. You begin to move on with your life, and you always stay closer to those who really do love and care about you. Several years later, you may lay in bed at night (like I did) promising yourself that you will always do better with your own children. I hope this helps you, just remember to hang in there; it will get easier to deal with.