How do you get over the pain and rejection when you are still in love with someone and they do not feel the same?

Answer 1

There is no doubt that time is all powerful and it heals all wounds. But then when in love do you really want to get way with that wound and the pain. Yes if sever all contact with that person, and better still and mutual contacts as well, it will help you in getting rid of the painful feeling, a feeling of worthlessness. It sure will. But then what will you do, if that person asks you to be a friend but doesn't commit to love. Will you still be so strong as to sever all ties with him/her. The important point, according to me, is to understand whether you want to get rid of the painful feeling or not. People will say that there are millions of people out of which you have to find the one who truly loves you. Let me ask you this. Are you willing to compromise by letting go someone you loved. Why would you have to go out to find out someone else..why not just the one you love. People will say, you deserve something better, or that future has lot better in store for you and you just need to see around. Are you REALLY looking for someone BETTER than the one you love?? You dont. Right? So what will you do..enjoy the pain dear. Its worth it. Its YOUR feeling. Learn from it. Be a little more better person than you are. Are you asking me why to become "a little more better person" when you dont get your love in the end? It is because, no matter whether you get your love or you dont, all wound does heal with time and yours will too..its the way of nature. So, if you haven't got the one you love, and in turn become "a little more better person" than who know...you can be NEXT TIME LUCKY. so cheer up...go for the one you love whole-heartedly. Even if the one you love is DESTINED to be of someone, dont believe it even for a second and you never know.......As Paulo wrote in his gem "Alchemist" ..When you truly love someone or soemthing the entire universe conspire to help you achieve that..

Answer 2

Time. Everything takes time. Either way, it'll take a lot of time if you really love him. Don't harm yourself either. It's not worth it. Just try to get rid of everything and anything that reminds you of him/her and try too stay away.

personally i find you Dont. no matter how long you wait you will always love them just that little bit!

Answer 3

you need to try and aksy him/her out again if them feelings are genuine ask that perosn out again and say that your really sorry if you want to move on try asking out another person and try to avoid your ex, if you do avoid your ex then you wont be tempted to love him/her so much! also choose a close friend or faimily member and explain anything to them, make sure they are really trustworthy before telling them anything. hope this helped x