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How do you get your boyfriend to deal with fights in a better manner?

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YOU have the wrong slant on things by even uttering the word 'fights.' Two mature people should be able to communicate well without yelling and screaming. If one or both of you are super angry then it's best to walk away from each other and cool off before discussing the problem. Communication is everything in a relationship and even higher on the list than sex. Without it you have nothing but misunderstandings and trust issues.

Perhaps he doesn't want to sit down and discuss things with you because you may be yelling, fighting and not being calm enough to resolve the problem(s) you have in your relationship. Life is stressful enough so why add more stress by arguing all the time. Isn't it better to cool off, then sit down and listen to each other's feelings and try to come to some common ground on a problem?

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