Dump him! He has no respect for women and no respect for you. Believe it or not, you will get his attention when you have enough guts to have respect yourself.
Don't tolerate that. If it's obvious...
I think that you should confront your husband, have him take notice that he treats you like a child. Maybe he doesn't mean to do it. Or, maybe he thinks that it is his way of showing you that he is...