How do you give a woman an orgasm?

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Female Orgasm Advice

All women are different when it comes to them having an orgasm. Some can have one after another and some never have one. What it boils down to is what really makes a woman have an orgasm. The clitoris or clit located between the upper part of the vagina lips is the central location of the most sensitive part of her sexual arousal. The first and most important thing to do is make sure the clit is moist before you try to stimulate it. If it is dry, she will become raw and this will ruin the moment, so act accordingly. Gentle circular motions on and around the clit will really make her feel good. If you can feel the clit swell a little, that means it is responding to you touch. Don't press too hard and spoil her orgasm. Continue doing this until she obviously has had an orgasm. When she has finished her orgasm, it is time for you to make love to her. Also remember, when a woman has an orgasm, her vaginal walls will close up slightly and make for a more snug fit around your penis, so take it easy when penetrating and not ruin the moment. Make sure your erection is moist enough to penetrate with ease. A womans vagina and all her genital parts are very tender, so act accordingly. Don't be rough with her and you both will enjoy a very gratifying love encounter.

Here is more advice:

• The key is to massage the clitoris, also known as the bean. You also have to remember that the biggest sex organ is in the mind. Find what she likes by asking her and do what she wants!

• Take your time; thrust then grind goes a long way

• First, the girl needs to be an enthusiastic participant. From there it's relatively simple.

• Love, tenderness, and don't think about just you.

• Ask her. She will know what feels best for her. Let her guide you.

• Most women can not orgasm unless there is stimulation to the bean.
  

Another Perspective

The main thing to remember is to pay attention to how she reacts to the various movements you make with your tongue and lips (no teeth-yikes). Always begin very lightly moving in a gentle, circular motion. Experiment a little but don't intensify the pressure or speed a great deal, only in small degrees. The heat of your bodies and your mouth will provide a lot of stimulation to get things moving. If the woman is hesitant, for whatever reasons, be patient and do not try to force your way into oral sex. That will be the anti-orgasm in most cases. Pay attention to how she reacts and when you get a favorable reaction be sure to repeat that particular motion or movement, but not necessarily on a constant basis. Go back and forth between different approaches. When you have a good idea of what she really likes, then allow things to slowly build to the point where she can't contain herself any longer - and then follow her lead. More than likely she will be moaning loudly and maybe even give you some directions by pulling on your head the way she likes it. Think of it as making out with her, only in a much more intimate fashion. I would almost guarantee that she will have at least one major orgasm and probably more if you play it right. Again, follow her lead. She may need to recuperate somewhat before going a little further and pursuing a second or third orgasm. Then again, you may find that you have unleashed a sex monster and she may not let you up. That qualifies as a good problem. Good luck.

The above quip about some women never experiencing orgasm is incorrect. All women, (barring injury or mutilation) have the ability to experience orgasm, if one doesn't, she isn't being pleasured well enough.

An Additional Point

Most women need a good deal of foreplay in order to fully enjoy the sexual experience. Often you will find that it takes more time teasing and arousing a woman than the intercourse itself lasts, before the woman will have an orgasm. Foreplay is key, and has the added bonus of teaching a man which parts of his partner are most sensual.

Attention, you also need to pay attention to the ways of stimulate. Do you know what is G-Point? I don't remeber how can you get the G-point, but you can see the tips from www.howtomakeagirlorgasms.com, it making by some retired doctor of sexual healthy will be more professional.

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