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What can one do to help someone who you know is in an abusive relationship?
Dvorak57
Start be getting information from this person about the signs and affects of the abuse. See if there are any meetings in your area to take this person to so they can hear first hand about the emotional, physical and mental scars that are left on a victim. Stand by them and support them and ask them how they would like to go about getting away from the abuser and what you can do for them. Do not however let this take over your life. By wanting to help is a wonderful gesture but this person also has to want help. Show them clippings from the newspaper, I just had two in mine today of woman that were abused by ex's and murdered. Sad but true..
AnswerYou could find someone better for your friend in the abusive relationship. Call the police on that abuser. Talk to her and let her know how speicial they are and how they deserve better because their worth more than what they put up with. or last but not least pray for them to see the light and get out of that kind of unhealthy lifestyle.Wiki User
∙ 12y ago
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∙ 17y agotry talking to them about it. Let them know that you are worried about them. They might get defensive, & if they do, just listen and don't fight back. Give them examples of what you see, and ask them if that is what they really want for themselves. Ask them if they are truly happy. Maybe suggest couples counseling. The main thing to get across is that you recognize what is happening, and that you are worried. Then next time something abusive happens he/she will remember what you said and eventually, hopefully leave the situation.
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∙ 14y agoYou have to be really serious and tell him what you think.Don't hold back in this matter. I think so too. but if that doesn't work, just kill his girlfriend. That one will always work.
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When you are bipolar does that make you abusive?
It could. But not every Bipolar person is abusive. It should however, never be an excuse for abuse. A person who is abusive Bipolar or not, is wrong in what they are doing. Seek help if you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship/situation.
Why would someone be nice toward some but abusive toward a good friend?
More than likely that person does not want anyone to know that they are being abusive to someone. They also like to have control and power over that person. The person who is being abused needs to get out of that relationship, also, the one doing the abuse needs to seek help to see why they are abusive. I hope that this helps. God Bless:)
What kind of relationship have you got if your boyfriend tells you your not to do kickboxing or workout in the gym and take a job as a policewoman?
A controlling one that could become abusive. If you or someone you know is involved in a relationship in which the partner is excessively controlling, like here, seek help from a professional service.
Why was he trying not to be abusive but he was?
Men who are abusive generally have learned this from the environment in which they grew up. Some men have a short fuse and blast off with either verbally abusive words or they become physically abusive with their partner. Some men know deep inside it is wrong, but don't know how to get help and most men refuse to seek psychological counseling because it makes them feel weak and not masculine. If he refuses to get help then you have the power to get out of the abusive relationship.
Why do you think some people do not want to help people they know in an abusive relationship?
One reason may be is that they don't know how to help. Another reason may be they are afraid to help. The power that an abuser has over the abused is frightening, both emotionally and physically. It is not unheard of that an abusive relationship can end in murder. Often times the abused person has been brainwashed into thinking they don't deserve anything better. Or they know they need help, but are too afraid to ask for it. There are professional organizations that are trained to help people get out of abusive relationships. They will offer a safe place to stay, counseling and the tools to start their life over. The abused person is the only one who can make positive steps to leave an abusive relationship. The best that family and friends can do is support that decision.
How do you help a loved one who is in an abusive relationship and in denial?
try being in there shoes and let them know that your there for them and tell them that its hard to confess but you feel better and safer
Your best friend is in an emotional abuse relationship and you dont know what else to do to help her?
Sometimes people will deny being in an abusive relationship and will not ask for help, but if it is very clear that they are being abused then tell someone in a position of authority about it (cops, teachers, parents, and other people you trust) Before discussing this with your friend, do some home work. I have listed some links to help you so you will be ready when she wants some help.
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How can you start dating again when your first real relationship was a abusive one?
Try to find someone you can trust. Or someone you know isn't abusive. At any sign of violence, be wary and stay away from that person. Eventually, you will find the right person. But remember this: don't be shy. You never know whether the next person is like the person before that one if you keep shying away from them.
Why do people keep going back to abusive relationships when they have someone that is really a good person?
In a abusive relationship the one doing the controlling does not let the other person think, act, or speak for themselves. Everything revolves around that person. When trying to get out of this type of relationship its hard to know what you are supposed to do. Its like learning to walk , eat , shop , or anything else for the first time. This is a critical time for this person and hopefully he/she will have someone to help them along this learning process. Although this person, who is usually and adult, is grown in their minds they are lost as to how to act outside of this relationship. Be gentle with this person and keep encouraging them to stay away. Did this person grow up inside another abusive relationship? Look deep into the past to see why this behavior keeps happening and don't be to quick to judge.
When do you know when to break off an abusive relationship?
I would say as quickly as possible before it gets out of hand!
What are laws concerning the forwarding of a spouses mail to an unknown address without notifying them of the new address?
If you were in an abusive relationship, there are places that will help you do that so your spouse will not know. Look at your local justice center.
