How do you kindly tell your significant other No?

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Say it with perspective. "No hunny, I am not in the mood." or "No, I'm not ready." This is better then, "No, your trying too hard" or "No I don't want you."

Saying I rather than You makes a world of difference.

Also, don't wait til the last minute to say it. Tell him/her what it is that your saying No to and why before it comes up.

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