How do you tell if a man is interested in you or just messing with you?

Answer 1

You can tell if a boy wants a relationship with you, or if he just wants to mess around. First of all if a guy really wants to be with you, he would spend every day with you, or try to make the best impression, by bringing you flowers, or texting you every now and then, or smiling at you, talking to you and making you laugh.

P.S: He might try to annoy you, this could mean he fancies you !!!

If he wants a relationship he would spend time with you, talk to you on the phone, make time just for you, say things such as if you need to talk you can call me and if he says anytime that means he is really really wanting to be with you. he would make you smile make you laugh make you feel like a queen.. if he doesnt want a relationship with you he wouldn't spend his time on you he wouldn't say hey call me if you need anything or if you just want to talk.

Answer 2

Get up the nerve and ask him. If you want to date him, tell him, "I would like to be in a relationship with you. Do you feel the same?"

If he hedges, he doesn't feel the same way. Don't think you can change his mind.

AnswerWatch for signs. If he gets flirtatious with you, always tries to be closer, or any other stuff that is more than friendly, then he's probably interested. Also, notice the way he looks at you. Do you sometimes "catch him looking at you" and then he looks away, embarrassed at the situation ?

When you know he's interested, and you're too shy to tell him how you feel, follow this : actions are larger than words. try to send HIM some obvious or more subtle signs that show him the way you feel.

I hope this was helpful !

Answer 3

A man will persue you if he is interested. He'll find reasons to call and e-mail. He'll ask to see you. He'll spend his money on you and be glad to do it. He'll treat you with respect because he'll be afraid of losing you if he doesn't. This doesn't mean he'll bow to your every command, if he's mature, he'll be expecting the same respect from you. If he's not doing these things, he's not interested in keeping you around for the long haul. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you, it just means he isn't crazy about you and is still looking for the "one". And don't fool yourself...if you're not the "one" you never will be, even if you manage to hook him somehow. And who needs that? Do yourself a favor, be realistic...if he's really interested, he'll make you sure of it and you won't have to wonder.

Answer 4

Okay. There are tons of websites and magazine articles out there titled things like "Does he love you?" or maybe "10 signs that it's time to walk" and I have to say that these are all CRAP. There is no surefire way to reveal your guy's intentions besides time. There are a few red flags that should keep you alert.

• he pressures you to have sex
• he talks about sex all the time
• he tells you that "you'll have sex with him if you love him"
• he says that he "just wants to make you happy"
• he threatens to dump you if you don't

There are also a few signs that everything is OKAY!

• he wants to have sex, but tells you that he won't do anything you don't want to
• he doesn't talk about sex at all
• he doesn't want to have sex at all.

Remember, NEVER do anything you aren't comfortable with, and if you decide you do want to have sex, use contraception! No matter how much you love him, you don't want to get pregnant or an STD.

Answer 5

it's hard to tell because if he wants to hook up with you, he's gonna act like he likes you and probably convince himself in his head that he likes you, but you won't know until you hookup with him weather he still talks to you or not