How do you know if your ex still loves you if he has not said so and is in a relationship but cannot stop calling you or making excuses to see you?

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Actions speak louder than words. Let's take a closer look at his actions one by one. He's still in another relationship--do you really think that's an action of love for you. He calls you constantly and wants to see you. Ask yourself why he wants to see you. Is it for a sexual encounter? Have you been allowing him to see you and have sex with you? When he talks with you, does the conversation always end up with a sexual tone? If the answer is yes to any of these questions, do you really think that's an action of love. Love is not a feeling it's actions of kindness, respect, and loyalty. Love is not rude, and hurtful. Love does not take advantage of another for selfish gain. Think about it, and you can answer your own question.

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So sorry for your problem, but the other poster is right.

This guy sounds like he's an ego maniac ... wants his cake and eat it too! Don't give him the pleasure. Time to kick this guy to the curb! Move on, show your independence and don't look back. There are other wonderful men out there that you could meet and would treat you with the respect you deserve. Don't cheat yourself.

For now, refuse to answer his calls and if he hounds you, then tell him to "knock it off." Don't feed into his fantasy of having 2 women.

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