How do you know if your husband still loves you?

Answer 1

Ask him nicely and in the right setting.

If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an answer you don't want to hear. In other words, if you have to ask then it's obvious he is either bored with the relationship and needs you to "spark the flame" or is simply not interested anymore. Try something "different" to get his attention.

You Don't Know Unless You Ask

Do you ever tell your husband that you are glad to be married to him? If you haven't, you have failed equally. So you better start letting him know how you feel about him. After that, it's easy. This is how I would ask: I have a feeling that you don't want to be with me any more. It would be nice if you could reassure me once in a while. You might ever tell him to simply say to you 'I'm happy that I am married to you." Some men have a difficult time saying these "feeling" words.

THis sort of mutual reassurance is essential in any marriage. How else would we ever know that we are wanted.

they are totally right, but be tactful on how you ask. Maybe I don't know, suprise him sometime, set the house up when nobody is there, for a sizzling romantic night. then watch his reaction, as you greet him at the door in the outfit you know is his favorite to see on you. then, in future, if there is still more doubt, always be sure to tell him how much you love him and appreciate him, its not just us girls who wilt when they don't receive enough of that kind of appreciation.

Answer 2

You know by his actions hun :) Does he say I love you ? Does he go out of his way to do stuff for you . Sometimes fights can be misread :) If your still not sure go to a marrige counselor okay :)

Answer 3

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Can I tell if my husband still want to be with me after his affair? big deal when it comes to men in general, 90% of them never show their emotion or passion, so it will be hard to justify what they are thinking or feelings towards their wives. Your the only one that can tell if your husband still want to be with you. But most men who made a mistakes and went back to his wife, will only be doing it for their kids sake even though they are both miserable and not getting along. And this is my only opinion.

Answer 4

Does your husband hang out with you and doesn't keep you lonely?does he check out other people? if he asks you to marry him and meet his parents, relatives, and friends before you want him to meet your parents, relatives, and friends.

Answer 5

Simple, if you are both home together in the evening does he spend time with you watching t.v. or does he find something else to do. We ask ourselves the sillyest questions at times. If he is busy doing "other things" then it's time to do something with him together, go to a movie go out for dinner do anything but don't sit and stew on it.

Marrage isn't something automatic, you have to work on it "together" and it really isn't work, it's taking the time to stop and remember why you got married in the first place. You can both do other things away from each other and it doesnt mean there's and affair or any of that stuff going on. After all you are two people and you work well apart and better as a team. So instead of wondering, start doing together. Hey if you have to ask then sit down and ask him maybe you both need to listen to each other and get on the same page. Hey it happens and only realizing you havent been talking is the first step to fixing the problem.

Hey men get frumpy too and have there little moods and stupid questions as to who I am and where I am going, what am I doing. They tend to internalize too much and with that they clam up, so I would suggest a nice dinner out followed by a movie and an after the show coffee or desert. Then maybe a good talk and thing should be fine if not then that means both of you need to work on some things "TOGETHER".

Hope that helps

Answer 6

This is a hard question, and there is no real answer. But the best way to know that if your wife still wants you is your wife - you must sit down and discuss things with her, be open to her and discuss the way that you are feeling and see if you can find a resolution to your problems.

You can always seek professional advice.

Answer 7

If he's with you he is. Stop being stupid and talk to him. Do something fun. Don't give him a reason to find some action somewhere else.

Answer 8

If you are still getting his hugs and kisses and gifts, you will know.