she says she loves me, and she would never cheat on me. But! she talks to him on the phone more than she talks to me, she's done more things for him. But swears they are just BEST friends.
If you are serious about the relationship and like your girlfriend more than the friend, then ignore the feelings and get over it. If you like the friend more than your girlfriend and the friend likes you, then possibly end the relationship and start a new one with your "friend". Don't be scared to break up with your girlfriend and end up cheating on her. Just remember, if you like your girlfriend more, ignore the feelings and move on; and if you like the friend more and the friend likes you, end the relationship.
no because then your girlfriend would be cheating on you with your friend and you will be mad
Long distance relationship or not. It's still a relationship. Respect that fact. If you care for this guy, you'll be his friend and leave it alone or support it.
There is no such punishments for ditching girl friend in India, after all its a mutual decision to live together.
she had already cheated by sleeping with my best friend and still she is black mailing me with the support of some powerful rich woman's.
be as honest and sensitive as possible and make sure that you have proof that the person was cheating
Your girlfriend's cheating
This seems like an issue between you and your girlfriend. If she is worried about you cheating, you should ask her why. Perhaps she is insecure and needs you to tell her that you would not cheat on her.
tell him how you feel. Let him know you have a crush on him and that you think that because he has a long distance relationship he isn't getting the attention he needs or deserves. End by telling you can do it better then her anyways!
In my opinion, it's not cheating unless there's intimacy between them: hand holding, kissing, having sex, etc. I've had female roommates before, and the relationship was completely platonic.
Amelia: To be honest, it would be extremely hard to give you an answer because there are not enough details. Without them, it would be a stab in the dark, and could ruin a relationship. Sorry.
Before asking your girlfriend or your friend if they are cheating on you it would be wise to follow one or both of them to see if you can catch them first. Check your girlfriend's messages on her cell phone or if you are living together then check where she has been on the Internet. If this is not possible then simply ask your best friend if he is cheating with your girlfriend and then ask your girlfriend. If they are lying often their face may turn red; they generally do not make eye contact; they may shift from foot to foot or leave the room completely or, they may argue loudly (over dramatizing) that they are not cheating.