i know i have had the same prob... aparently the site is sh£%! my advice would be to join deviantart and then join something like skulduggery-superfan or the-skulduggery-club ...those 2 are the big...
You cant Make some one love you the best you can do is become her friend and tell her how you feel and if she feels the same good for you! If not whats there to loose you will find someone who will...