How do you please a woman mentally and emotionally during sex and what are the best and worst things to do?

Answer 1

It takes time for each of you to get to know each other's needs during the sex act. Most women will help you out and some will even tell you they don't like this or they like that. Listen! It's important to discuss your sex life with your mate as well and just ask what they like. No harm in that.

Many women don't like (how do I put it in a nice way) oh hell ... a blow-job. Many think it's disgusting and something a paid hooker would do. However, some women do enjoy it. Another touchy subject (no pun intended here) is anal sex. Besides not being very sanitary, many women find this uncomfortable so if you hear the word "NO" take heed. Don't do it again!

Women like to hear that you love them, they love it when you tell them how beautiful they are (and you'd better mean it!) Sometimes women just want to cuddle up to their man and feel safe and secure and it doesn't always mean they want to engage in the sexual act. That's the biggest complaint of most women ... "Why is it that men feel because you want them to cuddle you they want to get rip roaring sexual and ruin the whole damned thing!" From the beginning of time men were looked upon as the woman's protector and sometimes it's nice to curl up in each other's arms and talk about the future, hopes and plans or just talk about simple things. What a great feeling!

Our bodies are like maps, and everyone is different, so it's like tracing a road on a map and finding out the do's and don'ts.

It's great you at least came on this board and were concerned enough about your mate's feelings (don't let her know though! LOL) Just listen, talk it out and it will all fall into place very naturally.

Good luckMarcy

AnswerI know there's one position you never want to try on your partner, its called the "Bucking Bronco" you start off in the "doggie style" position and after a while you call your girlfriend by another womens name, then you just Hang on tight.

i thought id start with a joke and there you have it.One thing i found that some women enjoy when having sex is to make sure your not there just to please yourself, here's what i like to do, weather i got the energy or not, give her a night of passion, then when your finished instead of rolling over and going to sleep (like i normally do), give her a massage, till you get your strength back then go start over again as if its the first time that night. don't do it all the time but surprise her, it will keep her wanting more. you might even try something i did for my partner for valentines day, only if you've got the money for it.

Rent a expensive motel room, check to make sure its got a King Size Bed, room service and a spa bath.

Book a expansive restrunt, you order for her, make sure you know what she likes, ( no point in ordering a steak for a vegetarian), a bit of bubbly doesn't hurt either.

now when you get her to the motel room, run her a bath and add rose petals and light some candels, play some soft music too.

join her in the bath and give her a massage, or if you want before the bath, give her a full body oil massage.

then give her that night of passion i was talking about before, make sure you don't fall asleep. this will be a night your partner will never forget, which i find always makes a women happy mentally, emotionally and physicaly.

AnswerTake a shower/bath with her first, and a massage is a great idea as well.

Ask her what she wants you to do to her, ask her what she would like to do to you. A lot of women love oral sex performed on them. Touch her all over her body, arms, legs, neck--as much as you do the typical areas of her body. Rub her feet.

Take your time, give her a couple of orgasms (more women are likely to orgasm from oral sex/clitoral stimulation than just penetration). She will then be more lubricated.

Worst thing? Probably unlubricated sex--or not being physically clean when a woman goes down on you. Some women don't want a guy to come in their mouth, some love it--so find out beforehand (in an undirect way, talk about what other guys have said about women) how she feels about that.