How do you poke a hole in a condom to get pregnant?

Answer 1

You don't. This is manipulative and will have consequences that you will not want to deal with. A child needs a stable home. If you are willing to alter a condom to get pregnant when the male does not want a child, the child will lack a possible good father. Wanting a child is a natural part of being a female but before pursuing this instinctive nature, you have to make sure you can provide a stable and healthy environment for this child. Ask yourself these questions and once you have answered them, then you can think about the best choice (which I recommend it not being to make a condom defective).

1. Do you have a supportive family/friend/spouse?
2. Are you financially stable to provide a home, clothes, formula, diapers, doctor bills, medications if needed, diaper bag, stroller, changing table, baby bed etc?
3. Do you have a career that can provide your child a good future later on in life when he/she wants to take dance/piano lessons, maybe private school, college, a car, emergency room visits?
4. Do you have a healthy lifestyle (i.e you don't do drugs, use alcohol, smoke, healthy weight, mentally stable, emotionally stable, etc)
5. Do you understand you will have a full-time responsibility caring for a child for 18 years legally but will be a parent the rest of your life?
6. Do you and your partner agree on how to raise children (religion, discipline, etc)
7. Will your child have a stable home with a mother and father that is supportive of them?