It sounds like you want to say "How are you, love of my life?""Conas atá tú, a ghrá mo shaol?" I'm not sure Irish would phrase 'love of my life" that way. BTW it's in Munster Irish.
FWIW "Conas atá tú, mo chara?" is Munster Irish for "How are you, my friend?"According to the unreliable google translator it says: 'How are you my friend of Ireland'?