Answer:
drop both drive shafts
set jack under trans and remove skid pan
remove transfer case
disconnect clutch hydraulic lines, neutral switch, speed sensor, and any other connectors you can find.
Remove shift levers from top side, you'll have to remove the access panel, and top of shift lever base.
remove mounting bolts there should be about 6, all from the middle to the top, the bottom bolts only hold the debris cover on.
pull the transmission back while lowering a little to release.
If your Jeep is high enough you won't even need it jacked up to pull the trans out.