Answer:
I'm a pagan (white witch ) and a good way to remove any black magic (a curse voodoo etc ) is white sage oil witch can be bought on the Internet and what you want to do is burn it in a oil burner
if you can not find white sage for a more love related spell go to a health food shop and buy organic honey and rose water boil the rose water with a tea bag or leaves add honey instead of sugar and drink from a pink china cup and saucer
Another Pagan Perspective
The suggestions above forget some of the most important factors.
The first:
Is there in fact a spell on this person?
- Sudden onset of infatuation or loss of interest in a relationship can have many non-magical explanations.
The second:
How do you know?
- Someone telling you they "put a spell' on you (or your loved one) does not mean they have. More importantly, it does not mean that it worked.
Your best protection from the ill wishes and magical harm of another is your own faith (and a bit of common sense).
- Most ethical practitioners would not do this kind of spell. Most of us work with a full understanding of the Threefold Law and know that "That which we send out will return to us threefold". Ill wishing, hexing and "dark" spells are not something most witches have much truck with.
The third:
Is the person asking this question qualified or even interested in working magic to undo this.
- If the person is already a practitioner, they already know the basics of cleansing and personal protection (shielding).
They (or their mentor) should have the necessary information, ingredients, and experience to undertake this in the ways of their own path and therefore really don't need the distraction of someone else's path, directions and spells.
- If they are not a practitioner, it is inadvisable to suggest someone with little or no understanding or experience should undertake the reversal of someone else's spell. That is something that even the most accomplished witches undertake with considerable care.
- A better suggestion is for the person asking to look to their own spiritual path.
Basically, if you do not believe in magic, you can't do it, nor can it harm you. I'm sure your own faith/spiritual path has prayers for protection, charms (such as holy objects) and/or sacred places you can go for healing/protection. Messing with what did the harm would, if you are a devout follower of your path, put your mortal soul in jeopardy. Why risk it?