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How do you stop a narcissistic parent from stalking you?
Answer Of course, they deny anything that doesnt fit into their master plan. Remember a narcissists is only concerned with three things, me, myself and I. Run do…nt walk in the other direction and find a person that has a healthy mentality.
Unknown. Strong evidence its genetic and nurturing... both.
Only if they don't have anyone else at the moment. but usually they'd before you even walk out on them.. have one or two on the side.. .narcissist people have abandoning issue…s..
Besides the fact their emotionally unstable and immature, they see it as nothing really. Narcissist believe they deserve to do whatever immoral act their doing, they feel no s…hame nor pity for others. Certain people are targeted by the Narcissist because they are not like others, Narcissist want what they can't have, so they go after those who are not interested in them because they need that attention and validation from that specific person for some reason. That person that they target are not like anyone else "this is what the Narcissist believes", their victim is one of a kind and so they must pursue them nonstop and have their way. Most of the time they become infatuated with the victim and or share a strong love, hate personality towards their victim and they generally don't stop until someone gets hurt, but of course this is apart of their illness. They know what they do is wrong but they don't really care to acknowledge their behavior as bad, instead it's pointed at the victim.
No - absolutely not....
No. Narcissists usually run away from an ex, they consider themselves too high and mighty to stalk anyone. They are more likely to act like you never existed at all. A borderl…ine, on the other hand, is likely to stalk an ex. I guess they are each terrible in their own way. It is almost worse for your existence and entire relationship to be denied than to be stalked. At least the stalker acknowledges having strong feelings toward you. Yes they are likely to completely ignore you as if you never existed. They might stalk you if you are a borderline or a sociopath but otherwise they will feel too ashamed to ever face their victims. Yes, they run alright! My ex N was having a an affair for 4 years of our 8 yr relationship and there were others before her in patches that i'd communicated with. He decided to treat me so diabolically enough that I would have to leave him, this gave him what he wanted which was to be with her. As like most partners/victims of a Narcissist I tried to patch things up, see if there was any hope 3 months later. He combined a cold stream of No No's with a drizzle or 2 of hope...and hey guess what he maintained he still 'loved me' but it 'was'nt enough' he loved me chasing him so he could be ruthless about it and hurt me terribly with lies and twisted events. Only person getting off on this was him. I took his mask off, I knew what he was, how he operated, how he deceived and once you are no longer any use they get rid for good, he was now happy operating towards me with the mask off because it just did'nt matter anymore to him that i knew what a narcissistic monster he is. No they do'nt stalk once its over, although mine did a few times in the first 2 years when we had fallen out and it was in the Over-valuation stage (idealisation) because he was afraid to lose me then. but if the mask is slipping or when he knows the mask is off yes he runs and does not look back, even now a year since we parted its hard to know and acknowledge he has simply forgotten all about me like i never existed and after all I went through. Yes they run away as far as they can once their mask has slipped off. I agree with the above post. They just love it when you are chasing you and then when they dissappear they are gone for good. I think its the masochistic part of them that likes to be hated and never let you really forgive them for anything. Pretty sick really. It really depends on who initiated the break up. If it was his/her idea they aren't likely to stalk. On the other hand if they were dumped, they may need to show you what a mistake you are making, because as they will tell you, you will not find anyone as wonderful as them self. If you aren't convinced to take them back stalking, threats and other illegal behavior may follow. If you try to turn them over to law enforcement be very careful and have witnesses lined up ready to support your claim. They are very convincing and will most likely file a counter claim against you and they will be prepared.
By setting boundaries, and keeping very little contact. Only use contact when regaurding the children. A narcissist will use your children as pawns to hurt you or to gain an a…dvantage over you. You don't want to rock the boat in the slightest way for your childrens sake as well as your own.
Yes. Since Narcissists (and Psychopaths) consider others as OBJECTS, even after they discard you they still consider you their property. Stalking, even years later, can & does… happen.
The only way this crime, and I emphasize this is a crime, can continue is to keep it quiet. It is hard to prove, it is your word against theirs, just like rape used to be. Tak…e a camera with you everywhere. Take a backup camera and then get a backup for your backup camera. It sounds like overkill but it's not. Take pictures of the faces that you are seeing more often than you should. Take pictures of the cars you are seeing multiple times in a day or hour. If you run out of memory on your cameras write down licence plate numbers and a description of the vehicle. Always keep a small notebook and workable pen with you always. File a report to your local police. Then be prepared when they don't help you. In fact, you will more than likely see them join in the stalking. Police involvement is very common. But file a report anyway for the paper trail you need to leave. When trying to explain to law enforcement you should not be surprised if you start to hear the word 'paranoid, drug addicted, mentally ill, ect. The foundation, the very basis for the entire crime is the slander. This part of the crime comes at the beginning and remains after it enters a new phase. They can't isolate you until they have turned your community against you. This is done with widespread slander. Not just gossip, but documented slander. In many cases a fake (but very official looking) profile complete with photos of you throughout your life will be compiled. Depending on your sex and background these will be shown to anybody that you have contact with. They can change your history very easily. Once you have filed a complaint with your local police, if help is not forthcoming, move to the next level. Report the stalking and the police misconduct to your local Department Of Justice. Keep copies of all reports for your records. Next go online, there are numerous websites just for this crime. They can help you with support and other steps that you need to take. Good luck.
Change phone numbers and names Answer 2: Don't encourage them in any way. The answer differs depending on your age and your situation: Up to 25 or so: My guess is t…hat at that age, you're probably one of the few girls who has actually given these ex's any attention. They're probably mostly self-conscious and insecure about themselves at this point, and yearn for that brief feeling of attention from a girl, even if you two aren't meant to be or anything like that. The only thing I can really suggest is don't encourage them in any way. The following advice is questionable, and depends on your situation: I'm not sure if you can pull something like this off, but if they persist you could tell them. "You don't even like me, you just like the feeling. If you truly liked me, you would actually try to understand me and what I'm telling you." Over 25: Try talking to them peaceably, if possibleTry ignoring them, and seeing if they'll stop.If that doesn't work, threaten them with a restraining order.Get a restraining order. Other additional steps for anyone: Change your e-mail, and/or block the sender.Remove them from your facebook account and other social networks.If reasonable, ask his friends to get him to stop. Don't put yourself in situation where you will be forced to interact with him.
report her to the FBI and police and they will work together. They will watch the stalkers moves so she will not know it and just when she thinks she has it made, they have a …case and the stalker goes to jail. When over a married man he finally has no one to believe his lies and goes back to his wife. The only reason he left is because woman will not accept being shared like the mistress stalker was number 4. Wife will always be number 1 even while stalker goes to jail. Stalkers need to understand that you can not make people do what you want. Lastly what goes around comes around only you will be in jail.
Ways to stop a woman from stalking: If she is calling you then tape one or more conversations on the phone and if she is texting you then keep the messages as proof she is st…alking you.After you have a few text messages and phone calls taped then stop encouraging her to do so. If she is calling you at late hours in the evening or early morning then change your phone number or get a private number and only give out your new phone number to family and good friends. If she is still able to reach you then someone you know is giving out your private information.Stays off Forums such as Facebook because it is easy to find anyone on there. Try to go places when possible with one or more friends as you may be able to use them as witnesses.As a last resort you could trap her into meeting you at a public place such as a cafe or restaurant and have a friend sitting close by to witness your conversation (tape it!)Report it to the police and give a copy of any text messages or tapes to prove to the police how desperate this woman is and stress she is not only making your life complicated you fear what she will do next. As a very last resort you can apply by law a 'Cease and Desist Order' which more often than not is a worthless piece of paper, but it may just scare her off if she realizes by continuing to stalk you she is now more apt to end up in a court of law by breaking that 'Cease and Desist Order.'
This is not an easy task, especially in a world which becomes more technological by the day. If the person is stalking you online, then you can do things like using different …email addresses, making sure that your passwords are all different and changing your forum usernames so that he/she does not recognize you. If you are being physically stalked, then you should call the police and ask them for help and advise. Tell them everything that you know about this person, and your relationship with them. Stalking can be extremely traumatic for the victims, and you do not have to deal with it alone. Make sure that the people around you know about it. Change your mobile number as well..
What i would do if my boyfriend was stalking me i would probably kick his ass . lol . and tell him to stay away from me and if he doesn't listen I'll get my four bothers to ki…ck his ass . lol . You should tell him to back off and if he doesn't then break up with him and if he is still the same then try to avoid him
Maybe... but not as much as they love themselves... all parents love their children..
If you think that you can stop them from being a narcissist there is no cure for these people. If you don't like what they are doing or saying there is nothing that you ca…n do as this is what narcissists do throughout their whole life. If you feel the least bit uncomfortable or uneasy with them you should end the relationship as it only gets worse.