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in my opinion..if i had a husband that was abbusing my kids,i would leave him.FAST! ANSWER You need to look into help from a local centre like the YWCA or a womens shelter and they will help you get out of that situation quickly and safely - and they help keep that guy away from you. You need to get out of that situation as soon as possible not only for your childrens safety but for your own as well - do not stay there. >>>>

The first thing you need to do is get away, and quickly. Most communities have battered womens shelters that will offer you legal, emotional, and financial help.

Batterers rarely get better--physical abuse may morph into emotional, mental, or financial abuse.

Your children WILL suffer the effects of growing up with an abuser- they may marry an abuser, or they may become abusive themselves. Children from abusive homes have significantly higher rates of depression, suicide, drug addiction, and homelessness.

The ONLY way to protect your children is to leave. Think about how you would feel in 15 years to see your daughter or son abused by their spouse? The best way to protect them is to show them NOW that nobody deserves that treatment.

You should also file a restraining order in court. Many counties will do this for free. You should also get an emergency custody order. There are many legal aid organizations that can help you. Your local courthouse or battered womens shelter will have information from you. Whatever you do, DO NOT leave the state without permission from the court. If you do so, you may lose custody. If you do what your legal advisors suggest, you will likely have a positive outcome. There are many protections in place for abused women and children.

Do Not Wait! It may seem hard in the beginning, but the payoff is huge. You do not deserve to be abused.

When you leave, make sure to take all of your legal documents- birth certificates for you and your children, your marriage license if you have one, bank account info, passports, social security cards, and school records.

Make a diary of the abuse-- includes dates and specifics about each incident-- if he hit you, if he was cruel, if he broke something. This will all be important later.

Best of luck.

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