How do you make yourself fall out of love with someone?

Answer 1

Take to heart that most of us have been there and experienced this at some time in our lives, and you are not the first nor the last that has felt this way. Time is the healer and I know that doesn't make you feel all that great right now, but your heart will heal eventually. The best thing to do is pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep busy. If you go to college or work, then go out with friends, have a little fun, and keep your mind busy. Most of us after being hurt never think our hearts will heal or that there will be anyone like the person we lost to love. Not true! There is that special someone out there for you. Just wait and see!

start thinking about the bad memories or things that she used to do that you hate a lot..

try falling in love with someone else, if that doesn't work. try to enjoy being single and have a great time.

Try and stay busy get involved in something hang out with friends more intiate outings it's a part of life that we all have gone through but your heart will mend. Then you will say "what did I ever see in that person?"

Answer 2

You don't. If your really desparate though, try to find things that you don't like about him. See how he is with your feelings. If your dating though, please please don't be hard on them. It's a rough spot to be in

Answer 3

The best way is to fall in love with someone else.

If you can't manage that, try to cut down on contact with her. No contact at all for three months is what you are trying for. After that some occasional contact will not hurt, but nothing alone or for any length of time.

Answer 4

That is not necessary. Just stop longing for her. To stop longing for her, start doing stuff... lots of stuff. Figure out a way to start spending your time doing for others; all of the time. Remember, whatever happened between you two was not a mistake. It happened on purpose. Figure out that purpose, learn from it and move on. If you don't learn the lesson, then you are going to have to go through it again and again until you do learn the lesson.

Answer 5

You either love someone or you don't. Sometimes to one mate it doesn't seem to matter how their mate treats them and it can even be an abusive relationship. A person could be havingan affair witha married man and generally the man (or woman who is married) can be self-centered and not care about the affair at all and is leading the person down the garden path. There are many different scenarios.This is a twisted sense of love. Love is caring about each other, honesty, loyalty, communication and the feeling you can tell each other anything and can beat any problemsin the world if you're together. If your mate doesn't have these factor then it's simply not love and you're brainwashing yourself into thinking it is.