What is it called when someone sucks on your neck?

Answer 1

Wet lips and suck until the person is turned on.

Well, really, "hickeys" created by sucking on someones neck are reserved for youthful play and the heat of extreme passion (reserved for consenting adults only!! lol).

The process works by creating strong negative pressure over an area of the skin. The blood vessels immediately underneath swell with blood to the point of bursting and a small bruise results. 30 seconds of continuous vacuum is usually enough to create a hickey.

Now, if you want to really impress and turn the other party on, gentle slow touches of the lips or tip of the tongue like strokes of a feather along the tender areas where the shoulder meets the neck and the outer edge of the ear will do more to add passion then a hickey ever would.

Things to avoid:

• Heavy breathing into the ear or blowing into the ear is annoying and only causes a loud whooshing noise.
• Gently whispering "I love you" into the ear is for mature relationships that are well established and you know the other party will appreciate hearing it.
• Sticking your tongue into the ear is kinda gross and won't get you anywhere.
• Singing softly into the ear is a major no-no, unless you are requested to do so.
• Being really eager and moving too fast or pressing too hard can ruin the mood.

Things to do:

• Be calm and confident. If you are making out, you don't need to rush.
• Be calm, feel good about the situation you're in because all the really awkward scary parts are now out of the way.
• Relax and take an "I'm here to please you... slowly" attitude.
• Gentle slow touches and kissing until the other person starts to give you clear signals that's it's time to really "get busy" because they simply won't be able to hold back anymore.

Of course, there are times when it's "just making out" and the other party has no interest in any sort of sexual intercourse due to personal reasons or beliefs. YOU MUST ALWAYS RESPECT THE OTHER PERSON'S WISHES!! Hold back and keep control of yourself. If the urges are strong and painful (testicle pain for men, lower abdomen pain for women), you can deal with it; (masturbate) in the shower when you are alone (or your bedroom, whatever, just make it private. Yes it's normal, everybody does it, just keep it private) .

I think I answered a whole lot more than what you asked, but I wanted to cover all related areas or as much as I could. And God I hope you're old enough to receive this advice.

Answer 2

a vampire