How do you talk to a girl without goofing off?

Answer

It depends on what you mean by goofing off. If you really want to communicate appropriately with a girl, ask questions about her. Show a real interest by focusing on her answers. Try not to interrupt her, but just listen. Do not be judgmental about her answers, and be encouraging, and positive.

Speaking as a girl

Do you mean talking to her normally or if you fancy her.

If you mean in general conversation, try and build up your confidence with the opposit sex. It souldn't be challenging.

If you fancy her just try to start small conversation first then build it up gradually.

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being a girl sometime i think its kind of sweet or cute if a guy acts goofy but its a special way like a sort of nervous goofy if its like a mean imature way then she could get totally turned off. I think you need to just talk naturally and be yourself and talk about something that you're passionate about and she'll totally respect you and won't think that you're goofy at all

coley (good luck )

Just try to relax and be calm. Always let her know you are there 4 her, and that you don't mean any harm.

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