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That is hard. I hope you will still be there as a parent though or this could really break him. Just make sure and keep telling him you are his dad no matter what. Biology plays a very little part when it comes to being a parent. I don't know how old he is but a child does not need to know the details unless he is older and asking for it. You can say you two had problems and that mommy fell in love with someone else for awhile when she and dad was having a rough time and that happens sometimes between adults. I'm sure the kid has friends he fights with sometime and then they pay with other kids for awhile and then get back to each other as if nothing happened. You don't have to go into details on the cheating. She cheated on you and not the kid. Also be prepared for questions about the biological father. He might want to look him up one day. If you can, offer to help. It will be no threat to you as his father and will probably even bring you closer.
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Characteristics to tell if child is yours?
if you have to ask your self this question its a good chance she cheated on you and its not yours.
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Tell me the process of adopting a child not yours in a marriage. The biological father is deceased.
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you go and tell him you cheated on him and tell him how sorry you are and ask him to forgive you.
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It is dangerous as those on the net usually do not tell the truth a, and you could well be cheated.
How can you tell your girlfriend you cheated?
how do you know if your boyfriend has cheated
When filing for child support does the woman have to tell that she was married and cheated and became pregnant?
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Tell someone you can trust and get help.
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What to tell a girl that just got back with a boyfriend that cheated on her?
tell her that her boyfriend cheated on her. she needs to know.
How do you tell a child that his or her mother is a thief?
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