Information as follows is necessary to be able to answer this question:
- How long you have been friends.
- Whether she is friendly towards other lesbian/gay/bi friends.
But, if she is a true friend and worth keeping, she will not mind and will support you no matter to what gender you're sexually inclined.
I have had a couple of female friends that were playing for the other team. One of them told me by just tossing it out there while watching a movie, hey im into girls. If he is a friend and wasn't a total shut-in his whole life you should be able to just put it out there. He might take a second or two to comprehend, but shouldn't be a problem.
if you think he is strong minded and can take it then just tell him straight out. if he is the sensitive type, then try to drop some hints. if you have friends that are openly gay then hang out with them more often and eventually tell him you think you might be a lesbian. most guys will think its hot anyway.
If you are a girl and in a relationship with a girl and you are lesbian, she will probably already suspect this. After all, you would not usually be going out with a girl unless you were attracted to them.
If you initially told your girlfriend that you are bisexual, but want to tell her now that you are lesbian, this should not be a challenge. A simple talk with her will make her aware of the fact and little should change about the relationship. When communicating in relationships, always remember to be honest, open, respectful and understanding.
If your not sure how he is gonna take it jokeingly ask him " ... what do you think about a bout lesbians?" and if you get a good or okay responds ask him " wel how would you feel if i told you i was a lesbian and that is why we can't be together" and if you get a bad responds say "oh i was just asking no need to get hostile hahaha"
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First U Need Time Alone
Make Sure U Tell The Truth. Boys Hate It
Phone Him Up And Meet UP
Tell Him And Say Sorry
Make Sure U said U still want 2 be freinds
You tell him immediately, and break off the relationship. Each day you wait makes it more difficult, and causes more harm to both of you.
Ask her
Talk to her alone and explain to her that being a lesbian is not your style but you still want 2 be her friend
You do what you want to do. If you are not interested, just tell her.
just kiss. no need ask
You ask her.
Ask them If she's your best friend you should be able to ask, but if she asks you why u think so, be able to back it up.
That really depends on what that secret is... If you want to say that your gay or lesbian wait untill your drunk:) if its a crush... He or she is your BEST friend if they really are they will not tell anyone. Hope i helped !
Say to your friend, "are you lesbian" and if she says yes to you then she might be.
you must be lesbian ^^ shot !
well i am a guy and not lesbian or gay but what you can do is tell her that you just like her and how you fell about her and if you do that then i garenty you will get her if not tell me and i will tell her
Hey, Well you should tell her how you feel and see what she says because not all lesbian relations are signs that you friend is a lesbian it means she is experimenting especially at a young age, so tell her dude and see what she says!!! =D GOOD LUCK!
Just tell her, it might be awkward but at least you told her how you felt. If she rejects you, or doesn't tells you that you both can't be friends anymore, then is she really your best friend?