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There are multiple reasons why your husband doesn't feel the spark, especially after a certain age. In any event, a man is always aroused by a woman who shows him consideration and a little skin. For some women all it takes is getting into shape, and for others, all it takes is talking to him about desiring him and that sets him off. The fact that he's still with you after 20 years shows a level of commitment that is rare these days, so there is a good chance he will try to please sexually. He has needs too. Something else to consider is a man's stress level. Set a special time apart for the two of you in which you can just relax and become reacquainted. Guys love a tease, so when you kiss him, don't hesitate to pay some extra attention to what you know to be his favorite places. Soft strokes to the back, little groans, sucking the neck, and just overall making it obvious you want to touch him and be loved in return. Be happy with him and he will relax and pay attention.

Also, many men produce less testosterone as they age. You might want to have him tested. He can get booster shots or oral medications if he needs them.

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You must remember the core reason why you fell in love in the first place. As i do not know you personally i can only give you this general reason why most people end up falling in love.

**First they hit it, then they must quit it**

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20 years is a long time. But if you have to ask how to turn your husband on after all these years it not your problem or you. Maybe it's your husband job to get it going. Don't stress your self trying so hard let him come to you. I alway try something knew all the time. Try this maybe he'll like this. I go out to a furniture store and ask for a large peace of plastic then I go and by a red light bulb. Then I go and get some baby oil that always do the trick. Something light to sip on and then place all my goodies out for that night. I take the sheets off of the bed and take the plastic covering the mattress, then I take the baby oil and pour some of that onto the plastic. Then myself laying there in something nice and sexy. Then when he arrives I get him to play along. squezzing the baby oil all over our selves. Then the red light makes it look so good. Then you have to play the Game! The game is for him to wrestle with you and try to pin you down and your making him want you, but he can't get to you because your slippery. That's the fun of it. Then you give in when you think he's good and ready. Oh he's really going to be trying to get him some trust me. Put your self in his shoes that night. Slipping and Slidding. Have fun.

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