What you're wanting if a "Friend of the Court" or Amicus curiae document. See link below. Before doing so, consider the Relate Link addressing the harm Sole Custody will do to the child.
That is called a "Friend of the Court" or "Amicus curiae" brief. After producing one, go with the parent to the Clerk of the Court to have it notarized and placed in the case file.
Research Friend of the Court document.
You can write a letter to the judge but the matter will require a full scale hearing. You must petition for joint custody or for a modification of the present custody arrangement and a hearing will be scheduled where both sides will be heard. Whatever you want to say in your letter should be expressed at the hearing. The judge may not read a letter or if she/he does may ignore it. You can't secretly supply any information to the judge to help your case. The opposing party has the right to counter any testimony you provide.You should consult with an attorney who can review your situation and explain your options.You can write a letter to the judge but the matter will require a full scale hearing. You must petition for joint custody or for a modification of the present custody arrangement and a hearing will be scheduled where both sides will be heard. Whatever you want to say in your letter should be expressed at the hearing. The judge may not read a letter or if she/he does may ignore it. You can't secretly supply any information to the judge to help your case. The opposing party has the right to counter any testimony you provide.You should consult with an attorney who can review your situation and explain your options.You can write a letter to the judge but the matter will require a full scale hearing. You must petition for joint custody or for a modification of the present custody arrangement and a hearing will be scheduled where both sides will be heard. Whatever you want to say in your letter should be expressed at the hearing. The judge may not read a letter or if she/he does may ignore it. You can't secretly supply any information to the judge to help your case. The opposing party has the right to counter any testimony you provide.You should consult with an attorney who can review your situation and explain your options.You can write a letter to the judge but the matter will require a full scale hearing. You must petition for joint custody or for a modification of the present custody arrangement and a hearing will be scheduled where both sides will be heard. Whatever you want to say in your letter should be expressed at the hearing. The judge may not read a letter or if she/he does may ignore it. You can't secretly supply any information to the judge to help your case. The opposing party has the right to counter any testimony you provide.You should consult with an attorney who can review your situation and explain your options.
You can have others write a character letter for you to a judge. It can be former employers, friends or family.
Depends on the argument, but Bird Nest Custody may be better. see links below
The rights your ex-husband will have once you divorce will all depend on what the judge rules. He could have joint custody or split custody.
Not without permission of the judge/court where the custodial order was issued.
In a character letter to a judge, include positive characteristics of the defendant. Use business style, structure, and good grammar.
The judge makes a ruling on the best interest of the child, but this is why Bird Nest Custody should be ordered. see link below
Yes if ordered by the Judge. But usually they will have a primary residence. Visitation is listed in the order or the other parent. If you don't have an order of custody or it wasn't addressed, you can always file a motion to have it changed.
The best method is of course working it out together amicably without having to get a Judge to decide for you. You can turn an agreement into an order by submitting it to the court.
They can deny it, but you can appeal. How well prepared is your case? see links
Only if approved by the judge.
That depends on the judge. Normally in the US the mother is given custody. Although there is a trend of joint custody. It's no different than being married to a US citizen. My sister was married to Canadian and she was given full custody. It is always best to work out the arraingment with the ex.