How can you tell your mom you are pregnant?

Answer 1

Tell her you made a mistake and that you want her help. Explain to her that this put you in an adult situation and you handleded it accordingly.
This is not at all easy to do being 14 and pregnant. Depending on your parents, my daughter started with me first and she was 18. As a parent you love your children with everything you have and want the best for them. My daughter was in her Senior year of High School. To tell you the truth, I knew she was pregnant before she told me, I confronted her. I told her I would stand beside her no matter what. She went on to graduate with High Honors and continued her nursing career. When she admitted to me she was pregnant, my heart did sink even though I knew before she told me. I cried for my daughter just as your parents may cry for you. You are so young and you can't even get a job to support yourself and your baby, which will cost you a great deal of money. There is no easy way to tell your parents other than to sit down with them and tell them. Be honest and if you have a friend or relative whom you confide in, maybe they can help you tell your parents. Then you will all discuss where to go from there. You may consider adoption, remember there are so many wonderful couples out there who long for a child and can not have their own, so they adopt. Your child deserves a chance at life, so think about your unborn first. Put his/her needs before your own. Your just a baby as well. Your parents are going to go through all kinds of emotions. If they show anger it's not really anger, it's disapointment. I hope your parents will be understanding and supportive. Your not the first 14 yr. old to be pregnant and you won't be the last. Just be honest, completely honest. I wish the very best for you and your unborn child. Good luck to you sweetheart.
Just go up 2 her and go mum i am pregnant

Answer 2

You sit down with both parents at the same time. Come to the table with a plan in your mind, if you have one. Such as, how is this baby going to be taken care of, who will take the baby to the doctor, who will be financially responsible, at 14 years old in most states, you cannot work. Do me a favor, if your not pregnant, practice safe sex or abstenance in the future. You are way too young to have a baby. Be sure you think about how this is going to affect the rest of your life. If you are pregnant and choose not to keep the child, there are wonderful, loving couples in America that will pay you to be surrogate and or adopt the child afterward. Either way those are wonderful options to consider at your age. You're not the first to be in this situation and your parents are not the first to hear this type of news. My opinion is that you each tell your own parents at the same time, you with your parents, him with his parents, in each respective home. Then the two families need to get together with you and your boyfriend to plan the future.

Answer 3

Write her a note

AnswerThe easiest way to tell them is just to tell them, they will probably be dissapointed in you. However, Babies are a blessing...and they will get over it.

Well you just tell her what happened, but it is a big responsibility to take care of a child.

AnswerYou still being so young, it will come as a shock, because technically you are still a child. Pick a nice quiet time, and let them know you need to talk to them seriously. Be honest, and be open to their feedback. They might be upset at first, but don't make any rash decisions or get mad at them. They will get over it. I plead you to think about your future. I too was going to have a baby very young (I misscarried) but now I think back and realize I couldn't have done it. My life (& I love children) would be extremely difficult with a child in it. Not to mention the father is no longer anywhere NEAR the picture. Good luck.

well that will be pretty hard my friend if u got pregnate and u want to tell your mother then let it down carefully don't say it really fast.if u didn't mean for it to happen then tell her it was an accident if u did it in purpose then can't help u there but tell her what u can do lie to her and say ur just putting on a lot of weight trust me I've sen it before lol just tell her the truth!try not to lie

Answer 4

There is no good way to tell her. Its best though to just be upfront and straight with her. Its not going to be easy any way you go about it. Avoiding it and dodging will aggravate the problem. If you tell her she will help you. She is going to be disappointed and mad. But first and foremost she is going to be scared for you. Its a great health risk for someone so young to have a child. Its a great health risk for the child. Make sure you get to a Dr. and confirm with blood work. Then arrange for health care with the state. They will probably want to know the father at such a young age. As there going to wonder if it was consensual.

This is a very will written answer. I can only suggest that don't beat your self up over this and let your mom know you feel.

Answer 5

1st think about what you want!! If you are going to keep the baby as your own, then I would write them a letter.

Answer 6

Tell her that mom im pregnant and depending on who your mom is she'll understand.