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How does a wife feel if her husband use some of the things he did with his mistress in bed with you?
Mgodat
- Firstly the wife knowing very well her husband has a mistress should not be having a sexual relationship with him and knowing full well he uses the same toys on the wife as the mistress is disrespectful and disgusting. The wife needs to get a spine and stand up to her husband and tell him he gives up the mistress and goes to marriage counseling or he packs his bags; gets out and the wife files for divorce. Considering what the husband is doing he isn't worth keeping anyway.
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Why some husband get turned off when the wife gives blessing to go back to his mistress?
When a wife gives her husband her blessings so he can return to his mistress he is not expecting this and his wife is as much as saying 'I don't care.' Her husband is wary of her giving up so easily and most likely feels she is having an affair as well and oddly enough while the husband feels it is fine to have a mistress he does not like the idea of his wife having a lover. Therefore, this could be bad for the mistress because the husband is more likely to stay with his wife.
Will a wife feel different around her husband and in bed when she knows he was with another woman?
Definitely it will be very hard for a wife to have that intimacy she used to have with her husband. She will not know if her husband is thinking of his mistress while having intimacy with her. She will be uncomfortable and it will make her feel cold, which is natural for the betrayed partner. Most married men don't realize that wife will have a problem going back to what she used to have. She will also feel uneasy knowing that another woman shared her husband. This are some facts that we all face when we forgive our husband and let him back in our life.
Will your ex husband ever regret marrying his mistress?
Some marriages work out when the ex husband marries his mistress, but often the marriage becomes weak because the ex husband does not have the staying power; maturity or desire to make a marriage work. If the marriage has problems in the years to come (and there will be problems) he may well cheat on the mistress he married just like he did with you. Move on in your own life and let your ex husband find out what he is made of.
What kind of case shall be file if your husband have a mistress?
A Divorce. He can then pay you alimony and see how much the mistress wants him then. Be strong. If you have some education and decnt health, you can take care of your self.
Coming from a man who has been in this position does he think about his mistress after he gets caught cheating and stops talking to her for now and if so how often?
Each man is different as to how often he may think of his mistress. Some men may feel ashamed of cheating on their wife; other men are just sorry they got caught; some men will wait until things cool down with their wife and then go back to their mistress. Cheating is selfish because the husband does not care how he will hurt his wife and possibly any children they may have together. Cheating is the lowest form of hurt one human can do to an another. If a man is that unhappy in his marriage and loves the mistress then he can be a man and get a divorce and marry the mistress. The odd thing is few men ever marry their mistresses and simply use a mistress for sex.
How does the mistress feel after the affair is found out?
ANSWER: Well, I've never been a mistress, but I could use my husband's mistress and now ex-mistress. But before I go on, just want to write one thing that really annoyed or upset the man that I married. He asked me not to call the woman he had an affair with, his ex girlfriend, mistress and even a lover, "Ditto" right? To continue, how does the mistress feel when the affair has been discovered? From my own experience, my husband said to me that she understood from the start that he doesn't want to break his family for our kid's sake, devoted right but this conversation they had was after he slept with her. To make the story short, his mistress is still part of our life, but if you ask him he will tell you that he already washed his hands when it comes to her. This woman is pissed and hurt, not betrayed, wives are the one that feel betrayed. For 3 years now his ex mistress has done everything possible, so my husband will know who he messes around with. At first he blamed me because I humiliated her, duh! if I'm not carrying his last name and if he didn't betray and used my secret to her, my life will not be this way. Anyway she send text, email, regular letters, passing through our house, will shout in front of my home, left roses in front of our front door for him, harass my 2 daughters inside the face book, gave me the voice recorded she made while they were having sex. This are some of the things that she does, and now writing me a very nice letter asking me for something. But it differ to individual, but this is mine so I guess mistress has different kinds of tantrum
Why would a married man would feel awkward around his ex mistress?
Why wouldn't he ? The ex-mistress is essentially his partner in crime. Both parties should feel equally awkward . ANSWER; I guess it all depends on individual. Maybe there are some married men who do feel awkward towards their ex mistress, for what reason will be a bit tricky. Some who do might be thinking the hurt they both did towards his wife made. Or maybe he felt that he destroy the life of his ex mistress. Men who have this feelings can only be answered by them. We can't really read the mind of a man when it comes to what they're thinking. Now the reason why I said it depends, the man I married didn't feel awkward towards his mistress or ex mistress. I did asked him, and his words was, 1- I can't never hate her 2- I don't think I will feel uncomfortable in front of her, or being around her, even our relationship is over. This man I marry can't and will never feel awkward to his ex mistress. It was proven to me by him.
Why does a wife dream of speaking with husbands girlfriend?
* If you husband does not have a girlfriend and you dream of speaking with your husband's girlfriend then it generally is the fact you are having marriage problems and fear that your some other woman will take your husband away. If your husband does have a girlfriend then you should not even have him living in your home and if he is seeing another woman and living with you then no wonder you are having dreams of speaking with your husband's girlfriend. She is the mistress and you don't have to say anything. It is your husband you should be speaking too and tell him to make up his mind if it's you or his mistress. The up side is that more often than not men who have a mistress on the side and when faced with an ultimatum by their wife will generally choose the wife, but if he should not then it's highly unlikely he will stay with his mistress long as he will want more freedom.
What is the difference between a wife and a mistress to a married man?
ANSWER: A wife is the women the guy is married too. A man cannot have a mistress if he does not have a wife. A mistress is basically the women the guy is having an affair with. So its the women he is cheating on his wife with. ANSWER: The difference between a wife to a mistress is such over kill and we never really know until it happens to us personally. What or WHO is a wife?.. a wife is the one that takes care of the house, including cooking, washing, cleaning, buying groceries, making things comfortable in the house while the husband is working. A wife is the one that solve simple little problem so the husband will not deal with it. A wife is the person that always make sure her husband will get some sleep or rest after working hard. A wife is the person who always make sure that the husbands needs is always meet. A wife is the person who will wait for her husband until he gets home safe. And a wife is the person that always pray so her husband will be safe from harm when his not with her. What is or who is the mistress?..A mistress is the person that will give all the time for this married man. She is the one that will do anything to make him happy because the wife is to busy to do it for the husband. A mistress is the lucky one because she is the one that finds out this married man has a lot of more to offer when it comes to intimacy. A mistress is the one that will not wash his dirty clothes, hear him snore at night, will not sweat cooking his favorite meal. A mistress is the one that will know how his day at work and how he look forward seeing her. I think this is the difference when it comes to who is a wife and who is a mistress.
How mistress ruin the relationship of husband and wife?
mistress can be a big ruiner to good relationships. ANSWER: Yes a mistress is part of a broken family between man and his wife. Unfortunately it's not all the mistress ( sorry I am a wife), fault and start the messing around but the married man is. Reality check here, married men are the one that search or look for other person we called mistress. Some mistress are single, some are married but still become the other woman. Because we love our husband most of us will blame the other woman, for ruining our safe, normal, and comfortable life. It is wrong because its our husband who started all. It's our husband that meet the other woman, hide the relationship, and yes having a second life away from us. The only thing we can say to those women who are having an affair to a married men is learn to say no._" No thank you, your are married " and I deserve to meet a single man.
What do you ask the mistress of your cheating husband?
You could ask her directly about her involvement with your husband and confront her about her actions. It may also be important to ask about her intentions and seek clarity on the situation before deciding on how to move forward.
Why does the wife compete with a mistress?
Because she does not blame her husband and chooses to believe it is all HER fault, so she will harass the mistress trying to get her to go away. Usually the wife feels like she is loosing control of her marriage and it's easy to be mad at the the other woman. This is foolishness of course. It is the husband who is to blame. If a husband doesn't communicate with his wife when he feels there is a problem with their relationship or that he's not happy with some aspect of their relationship, then he is a coward, or self centered, or selfish to deal with it using (and I mean the word literally) a mistress. When a husband fulfills his own needs at the expense of his wife, then there's no predicting how a wife might react. Of course the same is true when a wife takes a lover and is unfaithful to her husband.
