Find another obese person who likes you the way you are. Join a support group. Ignore the comments of others and forget everything about healthy lifestyles.
Being overweight just means being heavier than the medically desired weight for one's age, sex, build and height.
In a dictionary, obese is defined as "grossly overweight".
Being obese is also a...
Heart attack, stroke, type 2 diabetes, kidney failure, depression, increased risk for lots of cancers and diseases, low self-esteem, reproductive problems, and that's just a few of them.