Yes, vinegar DOES kill many bacteria and viruses, including many very dangerous ones that can be in food such as E. Coli O157:H7 (see for example scholarly research that shows this...
Yes. If the meat has been reheated to 165°F, vegetative bacteria should have been killed off. Bacterial toxins are a different matter. Most toxins are not destroyed by heating.
yes, it depends on the species of the bacteria. Some bacteria can produce toxin to inhibit the growth or kill the other bacteria if the bacteria doesn't have the specific anti-toxin.