If someone has come to you because you have put yourself out as a teacher, a coach, a therapist, a counselor, etc., and they are paying you to help them, then you have to override any negative feelings about that person. In other words, you can have your feelings, but you cannot use them against the person, grow in your dislike of them as a human being and continue to work with them. It is a matter of ethics and actually if we all used these ethics in every day life with those who we say we love, we would all treat each other better. This is particularly true for children, as they actually have little power when it comes to adults. It is a slippery slope when attempting to put yourself out in our world as a "helper." Are you actually helping or satisfying some need for power yourself? It is good to always question yourself if the person asking for help has little ability but to be a victim.