You have to be 18.
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A minor can not choose where to live. That is up to the parents or the court depending on the details. If your non-custodial parent who lives out of state wants you to live with him/her, they have to petition for custody unless your custodial parent will consent to the change and join in a modification of the custody order.
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No, not until they are 18yo.
no, but in the state of Alaska if you are 14 you can
18.
i dont think your allowed to do that
it is up to you if you want to grant your child permission to chose which parent to live with, in the state of NJ they do not give minors this power
A child cannot decide which parent to live with in the state of South Dakota because they are considered a minor. Only a person over 18 years of age can choose the parent they will stay with.
age 18 see links