How should you handle becoming a father at 16 and how should you tell your parents?

Answer 1

I know that the position you are in is very hard on you. Your parents love you and yes, they may yell and scream and ask how you got into this mess, but this too shall die down and they are there to help. You sound like a nice young man and seem to be taking some responsibility for your actions. Although a fearful situation you are in (for you and your g/f) it's best to face the music as they will find out sooner or later. Being a father does carry responsibility, but unfortunately, you are far too young to quit school and raise a baby. If you were to quit school and work flipping burgers (not that there is anything wrong with this, but the pay isn't good) then you will have no education to better yourself. You can however tell your parents, have them talk to the girl's parents and decide what is best for the both of you. If the girl's parents decide to keep the baby then you should offer any assistance you can (even if they don't want it.) You can offer to go to school, work part-time and give as much money as you can and also take some interest in your baby. This is entirely what you and your girlfriend want. Please, just take a deep breath and say, "Mom, dad, I need to talk to you about something very important." They love you a great deal and they aren't going to turn their backs on you now. I'm proud of you! Good luck Marcy