First, just be her friend. Don't try to rush things. If you've known her for a while, then just talk to her one day when it's just you and her and explain your feelings for her. One thing I wouldn't do is try to be someone you're not; be real. Girls love it when you're being honest and not putting on a act. Speak from your heart. Really open up and let her know exactly how you feel. I wish you the best of luck!
== Answer == What the previous person said is true, but always keep in mind to respect the girl. Respect is a very important aspect of a relationship.
== Answer == I am a girl and I would just like to say we know about the guy's ego. That's why we normally don't make the first move.
== Answer ==
Do not have somebody else ask them for you!!!!
== Answer == First, be a good friend.
Second, flirt.
Third, watch them to make sure they like you.
Finally, ask them out.
== Answer == All these answers are so degrading to girls. Guys talk about them as though they were a different species. I'm a girl and I'll tell you what girls like girls like to be treated like a friend and real human being. Treat a girl as you would treat one of your friends, only without the rude jokes. If you want to ask a girl out make sure you know her almost as well as some of your friends! Do not ask out someone you don't care about!
== Answer == As long as you know that she's interested or doesn't mind, just do it! We hate it when we have to guess.. or even consider making a "move" ourselves. Start out slowly, maybe with some harmless flirting, and build your way up from there. But whatever you do, if she rejects the "move" or says "no" then stop. Disrespect is a
huge turnoff.
== Answer == Depending on how long you have been dating or if you want to start yes, take things slow. Girls hate to be rushed when they're doing something important. Personally, I like it when we go a teeny tiny bit farther each time. Staring, holding hands, gentle kiss on forehead, then lips then if your old enough go father. Never, and I mean
never touch a girl without asking! (I mean
really touch)
== Answer == Make a move very slowly and gently. Just make her feel special.
==Answer== My boyfriend asked me if he could kiss me before he did. Some girls think it's kind of lame, but I thought it was really cute and respectful. Depending on what you think she'd think, it might be a good idea.
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