How long should you wait to start dating after a bad break up?

Answer 1

Whenever you feel ready to. If you still have feelings for your ex, then you should maybe address these issues first and then make a clean break. If you have already done that, the only reason you must be asking that question is because you are bothered what your ex might think. Will it make you happy to start a new relationship? I dont think you have got your head around the fact that you no longer have to take your exes opinion into account. If you are still in touch with your ex, because of children, for instance, it would be wrong to parade your new interest around in their face, but let them know that you are seeing someone and you are happy.

I think after a separation and divorce it is important that you take this rare chance to get to know who you are and what you want out of life. Don't be in too big a hurry. It's fine to date a few months after a separation, but be sure the person you are dating understands that there are no promises of a relationship at this time.

When you stil feel that empty, cruddy hole in your gut or heart, you should take a little more time out for yourself to mend. That way you won't make a mistake or rebound.

There isn't any rule on time frames...it really depends on how confident you feel going back out there and meeting new people again.

Your first date after a divorce or separation will be a rebound relationship as you will still be searching for the same characteristics you were used too. Try not to fall into that trap because you don't want to be with someone similar to the one you left. You will shortly find yourself again and know what you are looking for in a man/woman.

It depends. If you were "alone" for a good period of time, mentally/physically or in other ways while in a relationship, than you are ready anytime after you get out. You have had your 'alone' time. However, if you jump from one relationship to a new one (without mental/emotional time apart)...then it might be too soon. The answer...have SOME time alone.

If you need a rule of thumb as regards time after divorce, it is to be alone for one year for each four you were married. This gives you time to become self sufficient and to get back to the real you.

Answer 2

according to my step moms counselor you are supposed to wait about a year! but i say you should wait until you know you are ready and you know that you are over the "ex" and ready for a relationship!

Answer 3

This is less of a legal question and more of a personal, moral, ethical choice.

Check if your state has any rules or legislation that prescribes a waiting period between the date of a divorce and another marriage.

Barring any laws or rules that prevent you from marrying immediately - the choice is up to you and your fiance'. Sometimes people live apart for many years without getting legally divorced - maybe those people are ready to get married right away. It depends on your personal situation. Seek guidance and advice from trusted sources in your life such as your parents, aunts/uncles, teachers/professors, religious leaders, local help groups, counseling, or even a divorce recovery group.

Answer 4

It depends on what kind of person you are. It is your choice. I would say about a month (at the very least), for the stun to go down. I know (from experience) that breaking up is a horrible situation to be in, so these are some tips of what to do after breaking up:

The Start

1. Do not date for a month

2. If you want, choose another boy/girl, but be careful!

3. Get to know the boy/girl and make sure you know everything!

4. Start dating him/her

5. See how things are going

From there there are two things that could happen:

Bad Girlfriend/Boyfriend

1. Things are going badly, so you tell him/her about your feelings

2. Give him/her a chance!

3. If still being bad give him/her a warning

4. If still being bad DUMP HIM/HER!

Good Boyfriend/Girlfriend

1. Take him/her to watch a romantic movie

2. Share some secrets with her/him

3. Express your feelings of love towards him

4. Go on another date

5. Get married

6. YOU DON'T WANT TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THAT!

Do not worry! Have an endless count of boyfriends/girlfriends is part of life! It is

Normal!

Answer 5

Well you don't always have to get a new date/husband. But, if you really want to it is whenever you are ready. But I wouldn't rush things if there not ready to happen Amy<3

Answer 6

Answer I divorced one woman and dated her best friend three days later. Why wait, you aren't tied down to anyone now, especially your ex wife. Go out and have a ball and enjoy life.

Answer 7

when ever you want to just as long as you don't see your ex

Answer 8

Many people are dating before the divorce is final.