I should start by saying that i do not tie this know at the neck rather down a bit at chest level where i can see it without a mirror, hence my preference for a very short thin-end starting point. I...
Tying a 'Four in Hand' Knot in Your Neck Tie.
Here's a short video -- with demonstration plus verbal explanations -- that will answer your question perfectly. See the Related Link.
Go to the Hermes website (www.hermes.com), and look for womens scarves. On any page displaying the scarves, look for a link towards the lower right of the page for "Playtime with your scarf" which...