How to write thank you for a funeral gift?

Answer 1

• You can get a nice Thank You card where the words say it all and at the bottom thank the person for being there for you and the gift was greatly appreciated and then sign it.

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I always feel it is far more personal to hand-write a brief note of thanks for anyone who has either assisted, or provided a tangible amount of help before or after a funeral. In many cultures, mourners do not expect to receive an acknowledgement of their attendance at a funeral, recognising that such an expectation would merely add further stress to the bereaved.

There are many forms you may use to write, however, I believe it is far more appropriate, whenever possible, to add just a minimal of personalisation:

My Dear Elizabeth,

As you know, the past few weeks have proved challenging beyond belief. John's illness and passing have proven both difficult and a blessing. He was in such pain, a part of me is relieved that he no longer suffers.

Another blessing is the care, comfort, and love you so kindly provided during this time. Without your being there for us would have made these past few weeks nearly impossible. Additionally, the lovely dishes you prepared, the way you assisted in keeping my spirits up, and most importantly, the warm embraces you gave me, shall never be forgotten.

Thank you so very much for all your support, care, and love. I know as John looks upon us all, he is smiling.

With gratitude and love

Miranda

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A more general note of thanks, perhaps to an employer (or previous employer), of the deceased may be written to the director or manager of the firm:

Dear Mr Bellamy

Throughout my husband's illness one of the most comforting memories he spoke of was the wealth of friends he had at Dun & Bradstreet. Throughout his thirty years of employment, John spoke of the powerful strength of family that existed at D&B, and made his life feel fulfilled.

Would you please extend my most profound appreciation and gratitude to all who assisted me during this difficult time and for their care and support during and after the funeral. Everyone's warmth and kindness helped me endure the challenges we all face at the tragic loss of a spouse.

The flowers you all sent were so vibrant; they added a warmth of brightness and hope to such a dark day.

Again, I am so very grateful to you all.

With warmest regards

Morticia Addams