How you can trust someone when a new relationship start between a man and woman how can i trust the things he say or his attitude?

If you have a relationship, then you must already trust him...

if you don't, then keep the relationship going in little steps as the trust builds

its just like friends

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Trust is something you build up in a relationship, not bought or sold. It comes natural so it's going to take some time to trust the guy. Just pay attention of what he says and what his attitude is like after a while and decide if you can trust the man. If you feel that you still don't trust the man, either it's because there's something about him that makes you think negative or you feel insecure about him. Remember, the most important thing that everybody owns is their "word".

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You need to ask yourself why you don't trust him. Has he done anything to cause your mistrust? If so, then he will have to earn back your trust, and he owes it to you to be patient with you in the meantime. Did another man hurt you before you became involved in this relationship and that is the reason you don't trust the one you are with now? If so, then you need to realize that this is not the one that hurt you before, and not make him pay for what someone else did to hurt you. We all tend to bring 'emotional baggage' into new relationships (men and women), so it is really important to understand where the mistrust is coming from before you can understand and know how to trust, or if you even can trust them.

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