It is only fair that you discuss this issue with your wife, is she aware of your feelings for another man, is this the first time for you or has this happened before, there are many, many questions here for you tocontemplate if your feelings persist for your boss, and are they being returned, then it is high time that you come to grips with your sexuality and come clean with your wife, get divorced so she can get on with her life and find happiness with another man if she wishes., if this is a flash in the pan , try and seek counselling either alone or with your wife, especially if there are children involved.