If your asking which way you would say it, i would think you would say it as 'I desire kissing you.' Though word of advise, dont ever say that to someone....it just comes out sounding a bit odd.
You can't. Desire and aversion disappear "of their own accord" (to be overly simplistic) after you train your mind to be so focused that it can "see" desire and aversion coming. Normally we look at a...
Based on my research (because I had the exact same question *thanks for asking*), no. "Lust (or lechery) is a craving for sexual intercourse, sometimes to the point of assuming a self-indulgent or...