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My family wont give my boyfriend a chance and say that they will disown me if i stay with him but i love him and he is a great guy what should i do?
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∙ 12y ago
Well if you are financially and mentally (some people can't do without family) capable of starting your own life, then forget what they say. If you try and fail to convince them that they have to be nice to him coz he's a part of your life and that they should respect him because you love him, then you basically have two options, its the guy or the family. I think your case you'd go for the family.
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∙ 16y ago
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∙ 12y agoLife can be hard at times especially when something like this happens, but you have to remember one thing. Family will always be family, and if they decide to dis-own you and for some reason your bf moves on, where will that leave you? I'd say out in the cold, bf gone and no family to talk to. I'd go back to my family and see the guy on the side, but not live with him and keep it a secret until you are old enough to support yourself and then you can tell your parents that like it or not you are moving back in with your bf and they can either accept it or not.
I think that that is a perfect answer to this question, I cant find any flaw that would make me want to be sarcastic. Good job.
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∙ 14y agoIf you believe that a relationship with him is worth it then yes, you should stay with him.
[added answer] I believe what the above person answered is very much true. My parents hated my boyfriend but then again they never had my best interest at heart. If you feel that it is right and he truly is a great guy your parents will hopefully one day understand that. Is there any real reason they 'hate' him? Or are they just being over protective over you? I think that if its true love it will last and your parents will come to terms and understand very much so that you guys love each other and its the real deal.
Keep in mind that if you are under the age of 18 and he is over they can keep him from seeing you though. At least in the state I live.
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Should your boyfriend disown your teenagers for repeated outrageous episodes?
If he's your boyfriend, he can't "disown" them because he doesn't "own" them; he's not family.
Why should you disown a family member?
You shouldn't ever disown a member of your family.Regardless of what they do, their family should always be there for them. One's family is their innate undeserved support system. When something life altering happens to a person (ie. unplanned pregnancy, drug abuse, etc.) they need to know that they are not alone if they are going to get through it. Family is the most basic unit of society and therefore must thrive for government and such to function correctly/justly. We all mess up (big sometimes) and we all deserve a second chance. Friends leave, romance fades, but family is bound by blood forever.
Does a girlfriend introduce her boyfriend to her family first or the boyfriend introduces to his family first?
I think that the girlfriend should definitely introduce her boyfriend to her family first.
Should I go on a family vacation with my boyfriend's family when my boyfriend isn't there?
No! If they offered, say no politely. If your boyfriend isn't there, you're just going to feel out of place.
What should I wear when meet my boyfriend family?
You should wear casual attire when you meet your boyfriends family for the first time.
What should you do if a girl would go out with you but she has a boyfriend?
Wait till she's sinqle maybe you have a chance
Can you disown your family?
Many people do, and it should only be done as a last resort. You can disinherit them , avoid them like the plague, and anything else would require a lie. Blood is blood.
When on the phone with your boyfriend what do you talk about?
You should be able to talk about everything. A boyfriend should be your best friend as well as your boyfriend. So you should be able to talk about planes, cars, girls, boys, family, friends, and everything inbewteen.
Should you date an old boyfriend?
Yes. Havent you heard the saying that everyone needs a second chance.
Should your boyfriend bring all his family with mine on holiday?
no. at least not on the first holiday together. this should just be a time for your boyfriend to become part of your family. also if you do break up, then your family might still like to hang out with his family, and that could cause some unwanted drama
I'm FIFTEEN and I live with my boyfriend what should I do?
Go back home and live your young life with your family, then live with your boyfriend after you are married.
What should you do if your ex-boyfriend's sister broke you and your ex-boyfriend up?
Be grateful you didn't marry into that messed up family. Send her a thank you note, because you found out just in time that your boyfriend is spineless and allows his family to manipulate him.
