You cannot file a new order after age 19. A claim on an established order had to have been kept current every 24 month past age 18.
Yes but any money received will still go to your mom, not you.
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can i get back money ? he was ordered but never payed in over 20 yrs
I doubt there were many child support laws back then. Normally, only the custodial parent of the child can file for child support, not the actual child.
Your mother should have pursued your father in court for child support when you were young. In most jurisdictions you have no legal standing to sue your father for child support now, and especially if there was no original child support order. If there was an order at some time your mother may be able to sue for arrears but that seems not to be the case.
As long as you're not on Welfare, contact child support enforcement.
Yes, he is still the father.
An unmarried father cannot "choose" to not pay child support. The laws in every state require that a father pay for the support of his child. The mother must bring an action to the appropriate court so that a child support order can be established. Visitation rights are separate and a father can have visitation rights established by the court. Visitation rights are not dependent on paying child support.
No. The statute of limitations for child support arrears in New York is twenty years from the date of the default. However, in your case it seems that your mother never obtained a court order for child support. You have no cause of action.
Generally you cannot unless there are extenuating circumstances. Some examples of such are if the father was not able to be found and/or a paternity test had not been taken to prove who fathered the minor child.
Yes, but get a court order confirming this.
Contact your State's child support agency for an appointment. Bring all the paper with you - court orders, payment records, etc. Be polite but persistent. Good luck!