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If a man and wife have group sex or another type of sexual fantasy played out do they generally stay faithful to their marriage or does this lead to infidelity?In: Sex
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I haven't cheated yet. Fantasy is just that...have fun with it!
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If you've already done this then you have already broken the marriage vows so why worry now! When you marry you are suppose to remain true to each other. Some people take this extremely seriously, while others make excuses and go about their merry way and worry about the consequences later. My point is, if you want a 3-way or group sex, then why bother getting married?
I doubt a marriage would remain faithful if group sex was involved on a regular basis. Relationships can get complex without this added stress, so, it's like putting more logs on a fire.
This is your choice of course and each to their own.
Marcy
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It really depends on the people involved. Some couples view sex as simply pleasure and go from there. Others expect that you be completely monogamous.
My personal view is that cheating means breaking a rule. Different people play different games, and therefore have different rules. I've known people that were swingers and open communication seems to be a common theme in those relationships.
People do not and cannot stop being attracted to other people just because there is a ring on their left hand. The ring is not magical. Some women equate sex with love and when you have sexual thoughts or feelings towards another, they think you don't love them. I don't know about everyone else, but I surely didn't love everyone I ever had sex with. AND THAT'S OK.
With men, it seems to be more of a territorial issue. Neither is a mature reaction.
The important thing is that you and your partner discuss your fantasies and desires openly and if you decide to go through with it, make sure you each set ground rules about what is and is not acceptable. Have fun!
First answer by Marcy. Last edit by DrPickles. Contributor trust: 6 [recommend contributor]. Question popularity: 10 [recommend question]
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