If men do fall in love then why can't they show that love in a way that women can relate to?

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Women and men contribute love in different ways. Women are more emotional so touching, saying I Love You, and doing things for us are acts of love. For example, cleaning up the dishes or cooking dinner are acts of love. For men they contribute love with respect & sex. A good example is that women want men to say "I Love You", however, if they do not tell us they love us then we fall apart. If we do not respect them, and love them then they start to become defensive. That is when the fighting will probably start. It is the "crazy love cycle". If you would like to learn more about it then there is a website to explain it more thorough.

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To love someone would be to have a strong affection for them or to feel devotion, passion or tenderness for them. I believe that men and women both love the same and just as equally, but they show it, react to it and prove it differently. Women seem to be more up front and open with their love. Women are not afraid to open themselves up to the man they love or to show their affection. Women find it easy to express emotions. But if they are not loved in return they do not stay in sorrow for long, they pick up and move on. Men keep their love more hidden and do not reveal it as openly or easily. They are too afraid to open up and show emotion to the woman they love if they are not loved in return. Men are often uncomfortable with strong emotions, partly because they have been told to avoid them. Men can fall pretty hard when they do allow themselves to love, and that often scares them. We may not show our affection but our feelings, emotions and actions do speak louder than words. Our words can only be broken down. Both men and woman fall in love the same way, either with looks, personality or sometimes both. They fall in love with the looks but the personality closes the deal.

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Men and Women both want to be acknowledged and appreciated. Its not one or the other. However, they both have different ways of doing it and sometimes it sends mixed signals and gets misinterpreted.

Women are open to sharing their feelings and want to address their issues. Its all about communication and men sometimes do not know how to approach their partner to communicate. Women sometimes have to be more direct as to what it is they want because their partner does not always know how to show their feelings and affections. A man may be more afraid to take action because he is afraid he will make a mistake or send the wrong message.

Women have this mentality that men know what they are thinking or feeling without even having to say it. However, that is not true. Men cannot read a woman's mind and he can't always tell exactly what she is thinking or feeling. If the woman communicated her feelings to him the man could respond better to her and understand what her needs are. Communication is the key to men and women understanding their needs. After all, if you dont know what your partner wants, how can you give them what they need?

Men should not just talk,but actually do more physical things to show love. A woman can easily forget things that have been said but if you put an action with it, it will be more memorable because women like things done for them too. Women also can remember things people have done with them versus everything people have said to them. Women these days are providers and mothers, and they seek out attention and appreciation just as much as men do.

Here are a few tips for things men can try.

1.Leave a written love note for her. (On the fridge, by the bed when she wakes up) it will remind her of what you both share and how much you care about her and lets her know you are thinking of her even when you are not home. Sometimes women need to be reassured they are thought of, needed, and loved. 2.Take her to a place that you both met at or a place that you shared a special moment at. It will remind her of why you are still together and make her feel special. 3.Lend a hand sometime. If you see your partner working hard around the house, offer to help her so she feels that you are thinking of how she feels and that you are responsible and appreciate what she does. 4.Set up a date where you plan to just be with her. Arrange special activities such as a dinner, a walk, play a game together, or work on a project together. 5. Tell her how much you appreciate her when you can. Tell her you admire the things shes done and all the things shes accomplished. Let her know that you look up to her and how much you love her because of it.

Here are a few things women can try.

1.Tell him you love him and admire him for the things hes accomplished and offer to rub HIS back once in a while. 2.Cook him a nice dinner and share the events of your day together. Offer to watch a movie and cuddle with him. 3. Go to a game together or play a game together. Offer to go out and do something he likes to do. 4.Have a special night where you can do a project together. 5.Go out on a date and snuggle in bed later.

First answer by Tracy Goodin. Last edit by ID3521165044. Question popularity: 68 [recommend question]